Interpersonal Relations, Abuse, Personality Disorders, Counseling, Pathologies, Mental Illness 

Recognizing a Narcissistic Personality...Does your partner blow hot and cold, spewing stories, excuses and explanations for his behavior that, to you, defy logic and common sense? Do you feel suspicious and uneasy more often than not and are you made to feel irrational for feeling that way? Does your partner appear to create chaos day to day as an excuse to disappear or go silent without explanation? Do you find yourself slowly but surely becoming addicted to the very drama that's making you insane? Answer yes to one or all and you're likely involved with a narcissist...an emotional manipulator with a pathological relationship agenda. But, of course, you probably already knew this. You just didn't know what it was.Zari Ballard, the author of When Love Is a Lie, has been there, rocked that. Her experience involving a narcissistic partner includes a pattern of seduce & discard that repeated like clockwork hundreds of times over twelve long years. Now, with this book, she shares the painful but often humorous life lessons of the journey - lessons that are now empowering abuse victims worldwide to break their addiction to the narcissistic nonsense.Learn how a partner with a narcissistic personality will:..deliberately manage down our expectations of the relationship so that we expect less and less and they get away with more..mimic the appropriate emotions needed to achieve desired results..use passive-aggressive tactics like the silent treatment or a "cold shoulder" to punish anyone who dares to call them out on questionable behaviors..create constant chaos (i.e. instigating fights, disappearing) as an on-going tactic for keeping you in a heightened state of anxiety..juggle many relationships at once - sometimes for years on end - without one ever finding out about the other ..cross all boundaries to control you, break your spirit, and keep you as narcissistic supply"A narcissist will basically do the same things, exhibit the same behaviors, say the same words, inflict the same pain, and follow the same narcissistic patterns all the time, every time. If you think I'm exaggerating, I urge you to keep reading. By the third chapter of this book, you'll find yourself wondering if maybe my boyfriend was your boyfriend. By the end of the book, you'll be convinced of it"...When Love Is a Lie (Chapter II - The Relationship Agenda)A soul-bearing account of one girl's experience with a narcissistic partner, When Love is a Lie is resonating with abuse victims everywhere. If you seek validation for your own mind-boggling experiences with a narcissistic abuser, this very special book is going to change your life. Order When Love Is a Lie in paperback today...***Scroll Up to Download This Book ***Visit Zari Ballard's Blog: thenarcissisticpersonality.com - from Amzon